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KINGSPORT - Colonel Jo Anne Kilday, USMC (Ret), 87, passed away peacefully at home in Kingsport Tennessee on Monday, Jan 22, 2024.

Born in Ohio, she spent her early years in Baileyton and Greeneville, Tennessee. Jo Anne loved sports, playing both softball and basketball. A graduate of Tusculum College, Jo Anne had spent two summer Marine Corps training sessions at Quantico Virginia prior to graduating. She was, therefore, commissioned a Second Lieutenant in the U.S. Marine Corps immediately following her graduation. She served in the Marines for almost twenty-five years, retiring in 1981 as the senior female on active duty. She had many interesting tours of duty but perhaps her favorite was as the Military Secretary to the Commander in Chief, Headquarters, Allied Forces Southern Europe in Naples Italy 1973-1976. Following her retirement Jo Anne, who loved to see and experience the world, made traveling a priority. Besides traveling in the continental United States, she travelled through Australia and New Zealand, South Africa and Zambia, Israel, numerous places in Europe and the United Kingdom, and to Alaska.

Jo Anne was very involved in the Episcopal Church in the Diocese of East Carolina, serving as a Vestry Member and Senior Warden at to different parishes and being a member of several committees and commissions at the Diocesan level. She was also a past president of the Diocesan Episcopal Church Women.

When not traveling or serving her church, Jo Anne enjoyed spending time with family in East Tennessee.

Jo Anne was preceded in death by her father and mother, Jack Haskell and Eula Kilday, her brothers Tommy, Bobby, and Harold (Louise) Kilday, and her very special nephew, Donald Kilday. She is survived by her best friend and partner, Ginger Jacocks, her little chihuahuas Chico and Coco, former sister-in-law Carole Miller, Donald Kilday's wife Lorene, nieces Cheri Horton (Mike), Joey Compton (Chris), nephew Kieth Kilday (Michelle), great nieces Stacie Torbett (Hanes), Stephanie Blackiston (Tim), Brooke Creak (Jeff), and great nephews Seth Compton (Sierra) and Connor Linkous.

A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date to be announced. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a pet rescue organization of your choice, the Woman Marine Association (401 Edgewater Place Suite 600, Wakefield MA 01880), or the American Brain Foundation (201Chicago Ave, Minneapolis, MN 55415).

Thoughts and memories may be shared with the family at www.jeffersmortuary.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Kingsport Times-News on Jan. 25, 2024.

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Melinda Townsend, Chaplain WMA

April 22, 2024

Since Jo Anne's passing, I know you have heard from many in the Women Marines Association expressing their heart felt condolences. Formally, I want to offer my condolences at the loss of your loved one as well. While I did not know Jo Anne, I know she was very cherished. Please know of my continued thoughts and prayers. It is my profound hope that you can take comfort in knowing your beloved Marine has left this life to take up her rightful place in Heaven. As the 3rd stanza of the Marines Hymn reads, "If the Army and the Navy ever looked on Heaven´s scenes, they will find the streets are guarded by United States Marines."

Semper Fidelis.

Melinda Townsend
WMA National Chaplain
[email protected]
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HQ: 401 Edgewater Place, Suite 600, Wakefield, MA, 01880 USA

JOANNE SCHILLING

April 12, 2024

Colonel Kilday was such an inspiration to me as a brand-new 2nd Lieutenant at Fleet Marine Forces, Atlantic, Norfolk VA. She was such a strong role model for me, and I am grateful to have known her. Rest in Peace, Colonel.

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Jennifer Bailey

January 28, 2024

Jo Anne, You have a special place in my heartfelt memories of The Field House and Garmisch, Germany. Hope we get to ski together again in Heaven

Gregg Gaby

January 26, 2024

Jo Anne, you were so much more than just "The Colonel" to so many of us. You were a hero, and a trail blazer. I have saluted many Marines during my lifetime, but the day I saluted you when I graduated Boot Camp at PI, was the most heartfelt salutes I renderer as a Marine. Thank you for being there. Semper Fi and I'll see you guarding those Pearly Gates some day.

Joanna Benya/Cpl USMC 1970-1973

January 26, 2024

I never met Col Kilday, but the Gates of Heaven just received a well deserved Marine in Col Kilday to enter those Gates. Semper Fi & Ooorah Col Kilday.

Annette Mirasol-Aguirrr

January 25, 2024

Glad to have met Col Kilday at Las Vegas WMA 2022. Rest In Peace ma´am. Semper Fidelis

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