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Toni Marie Patterson
1957 - 2025
BORN
1957
DIED
2025
Toni Patterson Obituary
September 4, 1957 -
September 25, 2025
CHURCH HILL – Toni Marie Patterson, 68, went home to be with the Lord on Thursday, September 25, 2025.
Toni was born on September 4, 1957, in Wappingers Falls, NY, and had spent a big part of her life in Hawkins County. She worked in the school's cafeteria for Hawkins County Schools for nearly 15 years. She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister and dear friend to many.
She was preceded in death by mother, Mary Ann Benedetto; father, Joseph Nicholas Picteuro; husband, Jackie Patterson, and special friend, Randall Barrett.
Toni is survived by her son, Justin Ramey and his wife, Whitney Ramey; grandchildren, Penelope and Bonnie, and Izabell and Gabriel Kilgore; step daughter, Amber O' Laughlin (John); grandson, Thorsten O' Laughlin of Dallas, Texas; sister, Lynn Adelson; nephew, Tim Westberry of Lubbock, Texas; as well as her very special friends, Brenda Keene and husband, Rick, Rachel Rice and husband, Brian; and Star Collier and wife Cindy.
Toni's wishes were to be cremated.
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